What Makes a Person Beautiful

As per the Indian society we live in today women have always been given priority based on how beautiful they are. Some might deny it saying no, things are quite different now but honestly, nothing really has.

Racism on the basis of skin colour and features still prevails just as it was years ago. What we still fail to understand is that a beautiful person is one whose character is genuinely good, someone with good values and someone who is good at heart. 

One major factor that hasn’t let this tradition change is how we portray various characters in the cinema or on daily soaps. Also, advertisements for fairness products like fair & lovely forces us to believe that external beauty is everything – For example, if you fair and beautiful from the outside you can crack job interviews instantly, you can be a team leader so on and so forth but have we ever take a step further and tried to figure how this really makes any sense?

Because to me, it makes no sense at all. 

We’ve clearly forgotten how to think by ourselves because we’re so influenced by what the media is trying to tell us. Yes, it’s true, we fall it, each and every time. 

I recently came across this quote by Maya Angelou that says “It is time for parents to teach young people early on that in diversity there is beauty and there is strength” I felt so inspired after reading this and since then I have always shared it wherever required.

I’m sharing this with you today because children learn almost everything from their parents – how to behave, how to talk to people, basic manners and also how you think and what you think comes from our parents and you can’t deny this.

Do you think the faces we see on TV are just as they appear to be? Yes, they may look beautiful and flawless but how good are they from within? We don’t know that – they may be cold-blooded, you never know right, therefore, it is important to be ourselves than be someone who we’re really not.

Stop imitating people just because you think they’re pretty, you can be beautiful too and you are but by your deeds and not appearance. 

Here are some of the top 2 traits of a person who is truly beautiful

1. A positive person

Believe it or not, no one wants to surround by a person who is negative all the time, someone who keeps nagging about things – about their job, relationships, beauty etc.

There’s enough negativity in the world and clearly, there isn’t space for more so stop worry and start accepting things the way they are – it will automatically attract attention for the person you are.

2. Someone who talks about themselves in an affirmative away

Like I mentioned earlier, self-acceptance is very crucial. Even if someone tries to pull you 1o steps down you take 10 steps ahead to show them you don’t care and you love yourself the way you are. The day you start loving yourself people will automatically follow.

I would end this blog by saying life isn’t fair but it’s up to you, how you make your world beautiful. Remember change begins from you – society will keep being the way it is but its on us how we tackle these issues.